Jessica, 29Ohio
She was sure it was “too late.” She saw her chances were higher than most of her peers' — and went back to the app that same evening.
Chance of a relationship this year: 52%Thought: more attractive than30%
Actually:64%
United States
How many people in the US could be your partner?
Does it feel like everyone has found their person except you?
Take the test and see your chances of a serious relationship and marriage, where you stand among your peers as a partner — and how many people near you actually fit you. Based on statistics, not on the endless scroll of dating apps.
Start the test 26 questions · under 5 minutes · no sign-up
Data: Pew Research CenterU.S. Census BureauCDCThe Knot
How the circle narrowsExample: a woman, 31, looking for a man
ExamplePeople in the US
Men aged 26–36−93%
Single−75%
Want something serious−4%
Live in her city−98%
Fit her on height and kids−81%
This is how many men fit her answers. Your number will be different.
Every day about 5,600 couples marry in the US — CDC
Dating apps show you endless choice. The numbers show how many people actually fit you.
The test has three steps. You say who you're looking for, answer facts about yourself — and see your chances in numbers, next to your own guess.
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Say who you're looking for
Age, height, goals, kids. Every requirement narrows the circle — and you see right away how many people are left.
Your circleCould be your partner24,977,3496,494,111
What height works for you in a man?
Your circle narrowed: −74% of candidates2
Answer facts about yourself
26 short questions across 5 areas: stability, body and habits, social life, relationship experience and dating activity. Only things that can be counted.
FactsChapter 6 of 7 · Experience and datingQuestion 22 of 26
How many dates have you been on in the last 6 months?
30%of American adults have used a dating app. Among those under 30 — 53%.Pew Research Center, 2023
StabilityBody & habitsSocial lifeRelationship experienceDating activity
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Guess — then see the calculation
Before the result you guess your place as a partner among your peers and your chances. Then you see what the data says.
DataHer guessmore attractive than 40%
By the numbershigher than 72%
58%serious relationship within a year
41%marriage in the next 5 years
34%chance to meet your person online
Example result: Dating Appeal Index and three chances.
Most people underestimate their chances: apps show the most popular profiles, the numbers show everyone.
Start the testHow you see your chances — and what the numbers say.
Here's how it looked for one person: her feeling — and her calculation across five areas.
Emily, 31Chicago
EXAMPLE40%of her peers, she thought, are less attractive as partners than her
20%her chance of a serious relationship this year, as it felt to her
“It felt like all my friends were already in couples, and all I had left were the apps.”
What the test showed
Compared with women aged 30–34 in the US
109Dating Appeal Index: higher than 72% of her peers
58%chance of a serious relationship this yearshe thought: 20%
3,240men in and around Chicago could be her match
top-30% line
Everyone has an area that already attracts people — and one where your chances can grow the most. Find yours.
See my chancesWhat others saw.
Their guess before the test — and the calculation after.
Daniel, 36Texas
He thought the apps were the problem. The numbers showed he almost never makes the first move. Now he knows where to start.
Most room to grow: dating activity · 24%Thought: more attractive than70%
Actually:61%
Marcus, 27Georgia
He didn't know his stability is rare among his peers. He posted his card to his story, and his friends started taking the test.
Stability · top 12%Thought: more attractive than25%
Actually:48%
Emily, 31Chicago
She was sure she was behind her friends. Her index is 109 — and her social life is her strongest side.
Social life · top 19%Thought: more attractive than40%
Actually:72%
Illustration: characters are fictional.
What you get after the test.
Your chances and your place among peers — and a Love Card to share.
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Your chances and your place among your peers
Your Dating Appeal Index, your mark on the curve next to your own guess, three comparisons and three chances.
Emily, 31 · ChicagoEXAMPLE
109Dating Appeal Index · 100 is the middle
Among women aged 30–34 in the UShigher than 72%
Among everyone looking for a partner in the UShigher than 75%
Among everyone looking for a partner in the worldhigher than 88%
58%serious relationship within a year
41%marriage in the next 5 years
34%chance to meet your person online
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Your Love Card: 26 metrics about you as a partner
Made for stories. Send it to a friend.
EXAMPLE
Love Card
3,240
people could be her match. They'd all fit in an NBA arena.
Emily · born April 1995 · US
109Dating Appeal Index · more attractive than 72 of 100 peers
by spring 2027she'll most likely meet her person
age 33her most likely wedding age
onlinewhere she'll most likely meet
1 in 19people like her: master's degree, works out 3+ times a week, doesn't smoke
♈︎ Ariesher sign
58%chance of a serious relationship this year
+ 20 more metrics: 5 areas of appeal, your chances, preferences, habits, experience and more
Characters are fictional
How we calculate your chances.
Each answer is placed on the real distribution of people of your sex and age. The five areas combine into the Dating Appeal Index, where 100 is the middle. Separately we count how many people fit you and your chances of a relationship and marriage.
The index shows how your stability, habits and experience look among your peers — not your worth as a person. We don't ask for photos and don't rate looks.
- Comparison group
- Your sex, 5-year age group and country
- Three comparisons
- Your peers, everyone looking for a partner in your country, and in the world
- 5 areas
- Stability, body and habits, social life, relationship experience and dating activity
- Chances
- Serious relationship within a year, marriage within 5 years, meeting online — a model built on data about age, the share of single people and how couples meet
- Data
- Pew Research Center, U.S. Census Bureau, CDC, The Knot
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Answer 26 questions
Seven short chapters. After each one, a real fact about relationships.
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We count your circle and your chances
How many people fit you, and how you look among your peers.
03
See your numbers
Your index, three chances, 5 areas and your Love Card.
Questions before the test.
How much does it cost?+
Taking the test is free. Your full result and Love Card cost $2.99 and include 7 days of MyTestPro Full Access — every test on the site. After that it's $19.99/month; cancel anytime in your account. You see the price before you pay.
How do you know my country?+
From where you open the page. If it's wrong, change it at the top of the page or in the test.
Is this about my looks?+
No. We don't ask for photos and don't rate faces. The index combines five areas — stability, body and habits, social life, relationship experience and dating activity — and shows how they compare with your peers.
What if the numbers upset me?+
We show where you're behind and what already attracts people to you — almost everyone has both. Your weakest area is where your chances can grow the most, not a verdict.
How accurate is it?+
It's a statistical estimate based on public data from Pew Research Center, the U.S. Census Bureau, the CDC and The Knot. It shows probabilities; it doesn't predict your future.
Who sees my answers?+
Only you. We don't ask for your last name, photos or anyone's contacts, and your Love Card is public only if you share it.
See how many people in the US could be your partner.
26 questions, under 5 minutes. Honest numbers: where you're ahead of your peers, and what would raise your chances most.
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