Relationships · 30 questions · ~8 min · Thomas–Kilmann

Conflict Style Test

Discover your reflex under relational fire — and the repair skill that decides what conflict does to your relationships.

This conflict style test measures your reflex under relational stress. Your answers become a 0–100 score and a personal reading — a clear first step to understanding your relationships, not a clinical diagnosis.

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What the Conflict Style test measures

  • Standing ground
  • Joint problem-solving
  • Meeting halfway
  • Stepping back
  • Yielding for peace
  • Repair capacity

The science behind it

Grounded in Thomas & Kilmann (1974). A standard of organizational psychology for 50 years The Conflict Style test uses original items and measures patterns, never disorders.

Your possible results

The Conflict Style test sorts your pattern into one of six result types:

  • The Advocate
  • The Weaver
  • The Negotiator
  • The Pauser
  • The Peacekeeper
  • The Adaptive

Conflict Style test — questions

Do I need a card to take the Conflict Style test?

No. No card is needed to take the Conflict Style test. You answer the questions first and see where you land at the end.

How long does the Conflict Style test take?

About 8 minutes. It has 30 questions, and there are no right or wrong answers — you just respond honestly to how each statement fits you.

Is the Conflict Style test scientifically grounded?

It draws on Thomas & Kilmann (1974). A standard of organizational psychology for 50 years Our items are original; we measure patterns, not disorders.

How accurate are the results?

Your Conflict Style result is computed only from your own answers on a 0–100 scale — no comparison to strangers, nothing invented. It reflects the patterns you reported, and it is a starting point for self-understanding, not a clinical diagnosis.

Do I need an account to take the Conflict Style test?

No. You can take the Conflict Style test right away. Saving your full portrait across assessments is optional and happens after you finish.

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